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Friday, October 24, 2014

September 27 - October 7, 2014 All settled in

September 27 - October 7, 2014  All settled in

Way behind in my blogging!!

During this period of time, I have been very busy with my Italian studies and excited for the arrival of my USA guests!  Frank and Wanda from Missouri.  Will post those pictures and details in a separate blog soon!  I promise :)

When I retired, I thought I was going to have all this 'free' time, however, seems like I am just as busy as ever if not busier!  Just doing different things.  I am however, loving it, since it is things I always wanted to do, but never had the time for.  When I decided to come to Italy... it is as if this whole thing took on a life of it's own, and I ended up here in Bari (not somewhere I had planned), with wonderful sister workers with a bach here in the same city within walking distance.  I get included in almost all their visits to and with others, which is wonderful, as well as there has been some real needs here in this field and Freda says "God sent you here to help us... you were just what was needed here at this time".  Anyway, I don't feel like I have much to offer, but certainly have been well received and loved by everyone.  They all seem to be very appreciative and thankful I am here.  Of course, it has made me feel welcomed with open arms and I cannot believe how quickly I fell in love with Italy and God's people here and it would be very very hard for me to leave now. 

Freda goes to Australia in a couple of weeks for conventions there, and Crenguta and Maria will be here while she is gone. They are three until then.  Every Wednesday, we all go over to Malfalda's for lunch, then close to her home is where the evening meeting is at 6pm, so we walk over there, then someone from the meeting always takes us home.  

One day, I spent the entire day with a young man and his sister at their dental laboratory.  It is quite the process to make dentures!  Who knew!  Very fascinating.  We had a quiet atmosphere and were able to get a lot of visiting done. Teresa cared for their mother since she was 22 years old.  Her mother had alzheimers, so she felt responsible to care for her and gave up her fiance at that time.  After her mother finally passed away, Teresa was 41 and he had married someone else.  She has never married.  Lovey person.  Another day, we (3 sisters and I) are to have lunch with Tonya and Giacinto.  They go to my Wed. meeting and usually give me a ride home.  I was able to get a few things cleaned up around the apt. then scurried off again in time for lunch.  Now, I will spend the day with Cristina and the children... they want me to come every day, but now they are in school, so it's not possible.  

Sundays, I stay with Nicola and Mariella for lunch, as do many others.  They have asked me to stay for lunch every Sunday, and I have every time, with the exception being when I go with Luigi and Teresa's or others for lunch.  Since I usually ride the bus out to their place for meeting and then the afternoon meeting is just down the street from their place, I usually spend the day with them and also Cristina, Marco and the children... They seem to just expect it :) which I am very thankful for.  That way, I don't have to ride the bus four times in one day :) .. well actually 3 times, as someone always gives me a ride back in the evening after that meeting, since it is usually dark by then.  Anyway, that is sort of how my weekly routine goes. 

On Friday, and again on Tuesday, I had a long visit with the manager of my apartment.  From the first day I met him when I rented the apartment back in June, he has been very interested in my 'church'.  A very quiet, thinking type, of a man and seems genuinely interested.  He wanted to know if he could come to church with me and wanted to know if we used the 'real' bible.  Anyway, he has prior obligations these next two Sundays, so that will give the 'girls' time to start Gospel meetings now on Sunday afternoons.  He said he would go with me when he gets back in a couple weeks.. so we will see.

In addition to all this, I am, of course, studying the language.  Big job for these 'old' brain cells of mine!  Anyway, I am getting it ... slowly, but surely.  I spend about 3 hours a day.  Also, try to get some exercise in as well, so spend a couple hours walking, going to the sea and swimming.  Never lived by the sea before and I just love it!  It came up a big rain storm one afternoon and I don't think I've ever seen so much water put down at one time, even in Illinois (the king of rain storms!) 

Next Wednesday, October 8th, I am going to Rome to meet up with the Burhans, then drive them across country back to Bari, then on to Florence !!  Looking forward to them being here with me for 12 days!  I hope they are up to all the walking... do a lot of that here!  

I still have not made it to the Amalfi Coast... This (picture) is the one place I was going to go to FIRST and I still have not made it there.  I looked and looked for a place to live here, but that didn't work out either, but I will get to Amalfi Coast this next summer I hope!!!!


But, I am still loving Bari and all the dear friends.  My blog pictures tell the story of what is now my routine.  
Nicola, Marco and Luigi visiting after church


 Peppers are Ripe!  And very Hot!
 Olives are getting ripe
 and this is still blooming!  Has been blooming since I arrived in May
 Daniele and Carlo soaking up the beautiful sun.
 Teresa's Rice and potatoe and seafood dish!!  Yummy!!
 Teresa in her kitchen
 Looking off her balcony
Lunch at Teresa's with her friends

 

Luigi's fish.  Place fresh fish in baking pan, cover entirely with Rock Sea Salt and bake

 It was very very very good.  I never eat this much fish and I ate this whole fish!
Sunday evening at my house... just like in USA.
They don't eat very many desserts here in Italy, so I made fruit for them.  This is sliced Kiwi with creamcheese, pomegranate and fresh mint leaves.


Luigi and Teresa at their Laboratory making dentures.
 Who knew it was such detailed, delicate and labor intense work!!  I am impressed!
 They are artists and sculptors!!










 Huge Rain storm.  I've never seen so much rain at one time, even in Illinois, the king of Rain Storms!  I did not walk home this day :)  Thanks for the ride!
 Sunday lunch at Caputo's.



 The cooks.  Mariella and Marco
 Crengutsa getting help from Cristina
 Aunt Lili... those children love their Auntie!!
 All fried foods are done outdoors.  Great idea!!
 Maria Sigismondo, Freda Good and Crengutsa Dusciuc

Crengutsa and Maria

Ciao!

Friday, September 26, 2014

September 12 - 26, 2014 What's Cooking

September 12 - 26, 2014 What's Cooking



After returning from Sicily, I've had two wonderful weeks of settling in and getting a bit of routine.  Loving it.  Loving Bari.  Loving the simple pleasures of life and wonderful friends.  Still can't get over being amazed at all my good fortune... to have gotten to experience so much since March 5th, 2014 is almost more than I can take in.  Nice to have this blog (diary) to go back and 'relive' it.

A little of what that routine looks like:  Sleep until I awaken naturally (the best part of being retired), arise and make my herbal drinks, etc.,  Next, I love my morning devotion time.  After that, I do my floor exercises, then shower and get ready for the day.  Now 1-2 hours of language study... much needed breaks in between :) , especially for espresso!  Almost every afternoon, I try to go to the beach for a swim and a bit of sun, however, it has rained a few different days here, so fall is coming and won't get to do this as much as I have been.  I have loved the rain and thunder and lightening.  Interesting how different the thunder sounds bouncing off all these tall buildings that are so close together and you can hear it rumbling down the narrow streets.  Very interesting sound!  Wind kicking up the seas makes it harder to swim in.




And if the parking spot isn't big enough, angle parking works... :)

The rest of my days and evenings gets varied a lot and then of course, Wednesday and Sunday are church days, so I am gone ALL day on Sunday (8:30am to 8 or 9pm) and all afternoon and evening on Wednesdays.  The other days, I hang out either in person, on the phone/computer or at their home with Cristina and family, Liliana, Teresa and Luigi, Freda & Crengutsa, Mafalda, Mariano, etc.  Many lunchs, dinners, going visiting with Freda and Crengutsa, (Cristina going with me places to be my translator), me going with her to watch the kids so she can get something done :).  Of course school has started now for Aurora and Roberto, so her routine has also changed.  I also spend a good portion of time on my computer, typing up some notes that I have collected through the years.  All in all, I am quiet busy.  Some were worried, I would 'have nothing to do' here!!!... still waiting for that day :)  I had an offer to go to Australia for conventions with Freda, and would LOVE to go, however, I must stay where I am for now and study.  Next time...

 This tree at Caputo's has bloomed all spring, summer and now fall... it is so beautiful
 Cruise ships come and go daily
A walk along the sea behind Caputo's home, with Liliana, Marco, Aurora and Roberto after Sunday lunch on the 14th with all the family.  His folks, and sister, and so many others.
 Cristina is having some issues with her elbow, so has been taking some treatments for it.  I went to the doctors office with her one day.  Aurora (4) tried to tell me something in Italian.  She could see that I was not understanding her, so Cristina, said to Aurora to tell Carmen (said it in English what she should say to me).  Aurora spread both her hands in front of her, palms up and said, "she has had enough time... she needs to speak Italian"!  Oh my goodness, I love children... how funny is this!!

The children love to have me come over there and I love going and being with them.  Another day, Cristina was outside her home speaking in English, and she said both the children came running out saying "Carmen is here, Carmen is here", just because they heard her speak English.  They were so disappointed when they found out I wasn't. :(  I see them at least twice a week.

Planning a meal... well that was a unique challenge.  Spent several days going to the market and reading labels, as well as recipes.  Who knew cooking could be so complicated!   Conversions, conversions!  Grams, ml, liters, celsius. Oh my; but from the happy look on these faces, I think it turned out okay... or maybe it was just the wine talking :)  Anyway, I thought it was fantastic, enough that I will share the recipes as per Ms. Gail's request :)  They will be posted at the end Gail...  enjoy, or should I say. good luck!   One thing I've noticed here, are the tomatoes, lemons and olive oil taste soooo much better!  And also the fresh mozzarella!
 Entertaining in my 'new home' and cooking Italian style.  Luigi, Teresa and Alessandra.  What a fun evening.  Too bad about Luigi's motorcycle lock though, when he went to leave, the wheel lock would not open, so had to leave his motorbike outside on the walk all night.  That night, he said he searched the internet and sure enough... they showed exactly how to break the lock, so next morning he came and broke it.  Not a very restful night for them Teresa said...  He has now purchased a much more secure lock.
Nice to have a 'son' here.  Wonderful young man, enjoying and loving to see the new growth in him... great progress.  Italy needs more just like him and Mariano!

Saturday 20th, AnnaMaria (Teresa's sister) came over and I got my first massage since I've been in Italy.  What luxury to have it done in my own home; how very relaxing and the "price was right"!!  Something I can afford :)

Sunday 21st, after church went to Teresa's and she made Beef Bolognese sauce over noodles and other yummy things for lunch, then we had our wonderful afternoon sietas before evening bible study.  Getting quite use to these siestas, and because everyone does it, it doesn't make me feel old. :)

Monday, did laundry, walked down town a bit.  Not much.  Then in the late afternoon, met with the landlord to inquire if they would let me put up a shelf... got my answer today 26th.. Yes!  Borrowing a drill this afternoon to do just that.  Damiano is a wonderful manager for my apartment.  He speaks excellent English, so makes communication enjoyable!  He said I looked 'relaxed'... nice to hear.  I know I sure am enjoying it here and love my little apartment.  It is just right!  Not too big, but suits my purposes perfectly right now!


  It is above these two white chairs that I want to put the shelf.

Added this picture later after I got the shelf up :)

On Wednesday the 24th, Freda, Crengutsa and I were invited to have 1 pm lunch and spend the afternoon with Mafalda until time for evening church.  Mafalda is a lovely elderly lady who is always doing all she can for everyone, has all her 'wits' about her and is vibrant and just adorable.  Lives in her own very large home and gets around like a much much younger woman.

Now, since I was unable to get a very good physical pictures, I will try to paint a word picture for you... I could hardly believe it and yet it felt and seemed so normal (and of course, it is normal here in Italy!!)  I am just loving 'stepping back in time'!!  A much simpler lifestyle, in so many ways...  Anyway, it tickled my funny bone and still makes me laugh when I think of it...

So picture this:  Mafalda is 82 years old and still drives this 2 door car.  It comes with 'character and personal touchs', reflecting a well used vehicle (keep in mind, no different than all the other cars here though), just not a comfortable feeling to know how close some of the calls were :)

This is my Sunday church group.  Mafalda is in white with hand on g'ma shoulder.

Anyway, Freda, Crengutsa and I rode the bus over to the area where she lives and she insisted on coming to pick us up at the bus stop (otherwise we would have walked... I like walking!!)  When we arrived at the bus stop, we saw this tiny 4 foot, 82 year old lady there to pick us in in this two door :).  Not only that, because there are so many undesirable types that get off at this particular stop, another lady who had gotten off when we did, asked Mafalda if she could please have a ride too.... Okay, that now makes five of us....

So we all pile in.  Freda and I ('fully grown women') and Crengutsa (a bit smaller) all pile in the back seat!!!  and then the other Italian lady is in front and Malfalda is driving.   Oh My!  We looked like pretzels in a tuna can packed in oil (those shocks will never be the same)!  This struck me as so funny, I started laughing and trying not too, as I did not want to offend anyone, but how to stop.  Dug up my camera from the folds and pits and tried to take some pictures, but as you can see, impossible to 'get back far enough'  (understatement!!)

 Crengutsa had to sit sideways... all you can see is her arm

 The only room left in the car was above Mafalda's head... she is only 4 foot!  What a big heart this small woman has!  She wanted to be as helpful as she could, always doing and giving her best.  Knowing people like her really humbles me.
 Crengutsa waiting to slither out :)  Loved it... could hardly believe I was doing this after owning a Lincoln Town Car... one of the biggest land yachts yet, and now this.  How do I say Love, Love, Love being here experiencing these things and who I am experiencing them with!
 Freda at Mafalda's
Lunch at Mafalda's with her grandson, Stefano.  Mafalda is an Awesome cook; everything has such excellent flavor.  Stefano is a very nice young man and such a help to Mafalda.

After lunch, we all took our afternoon 'siesta', then around 4pm I got up and walked over to Caputo's to pick up my mail and to get on the internet and take care of some banking business.  Just before 6 pm, Malfalda and the girls came over for Bible study.  After study, I caught a ride home with Giacinto and Freda & Crengutsa with Giuseppe.  All in all, what a lovely day.

And now, it is Friday again already... time seems to go just as fast as it ever did.  Two weeks gone already.  Two full consecutive weeks in my apartment and I have loved it.  What's really nice is how quiet my apartment is!!! I love quietness!!  Oh, How I love it!  So now, time for more studying....

Ciao!

Recipes:  What's cooking

On the table to be eaten with or at any time:

Take fresh chopped garlic and place on a baking dish in the oven and dry toast until golden brown, but do not scorch.  Cool, spread out on a flat plate, sprinkle with fresh ground sea salt, then pour fresh olive oil over, just to cover the garlic.  Now slice very thin slices of your favorite bread and use these to 'dip' in the garlic/oil, making sure to press down to pick up the garlic pieces.... Yummy!  Actually something I learned in the US some years ago.


1st course: 
Italian Semolina Dumplings.  
5 tablespoons semolina flour
1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
1/4 teaspoon Italian seasoning
1 egg
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 pinch salt
DIRECTIONS:
1.Bring to a boil in a medium pot, chicken broth, homemade or otherwise.
2.Stir together the semolina flour, garlic powder, and Italian seasoning in a small bowl; set aside. Whisk together the egg, olive oil, and salt in a larger bowl until smooth. Slowly whisk in the semolina until a soft dough has formed, then leave rest for about 5 min.
3.Drop the dumpling dough by small teaspoonful into the boiling broth. Boil until the dumplings float to the surface, then reduce heat and cook on low until they have grown in size, more than double.  About 4 minutes. Serve hot soup.

2nd course: 
Mozzarella, Tomato, Basil Salad.
Ingredients
2 large ripe tomatoes, peeled and sliced 1/4-inch thick
8 ounces fresh mozzarella, sliced 1/4-inch thick
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
8 fresh basil leaves
Directions
Arrange the tomato and mozzarella slices on a platter or individual salad plates, overlapping the slices and fanning them out like a deck of cards.

Sprinkle with the salt and pepper.

Drizzle with the oil.

Garnish with the basil: Cut it into very thin slices or tear into bits and sprinkle on top or leave the leaves whole and tuck them here and there between the mozzarella and tomato slices. Serve immediately.


3rd Course: 


Chicken and Pasta in White Wine Garlic Sauce


Ingredients
    • 4 (6 ounce) boneless skinless chicken breasts
    • 1/2 cup water
    • 1 cup dry white wine
    • 1 (14 ounce) cans diced tomatoes, drained
    • 1/2 cup extra virgin olive oil
    • 1 (6 ounce) cans sliced mushrooms
    • 1 cup finely chopped white onion
    • 1/2 teaspoon oregano
    • 1/2 teaspoon thyme
    • 1/2 teaspoon rosemary
    • 1/2 teaspoon basil
    • 1 bay leaf
    • 2 cloves crushed garlic or 2 cloves minced garlic
    • 1 lb linguine or 1 lb other pastas
    • salt and pepper

Directions

  1. Cut chicken breasts into bite-sized pieces.
  2. Combine chicken in large skillet with water, olive oil, mushrooms, onion, garlic, and spices.
  3. Cook until onion is tender.
  4. Add tomatoes, wine, salt and pepper to taste.
  5. Reduce heat, cover, and simmer about 15 minutes while preparing pasta, stirring occasionally.
  6. Drain pasta al dente,place into serving dish and toss with olive oil.
  7. Pour chicken mixture over pasta.
  8. Serve with fresh salad and garlic toast.
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      I am very generous with my spices when i make this dish and usually add more than the recipe calls for, but it is quite delicious as written.
  • 10.  Now, I did not want to have pasta this time, so I did not dice the chicken, but left them whole halves, braised them on each side before I put them in the pot, then I just thickened the sauce and used it directly over the chicken on the plate when I served it.  

  • Served it with salad and zucchini.
  • Vegetable and Salad.  Salad was just greens, diced bell pepper, salt & pepper, with olive oil and fresh lemon juice squeezed on just at time of serving.


  • Baked Parmesan Zucchini

    Crisp, tender zucchini sticks oven-roasted to absolute perfection. It's healthy, nutritious and completely addictive!

    Ingredients - Always use organic ingredients.

    4 zucchini, quartered lengthwise
    1/2 cup grated Parmesan
    1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
    1/2 teaspoon dried oregano
    1/2 teaspoon dried basil
    1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
    Himalayan salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
    2 tablespoons virgin olive oil
    2 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley leaves

    Instructions

    Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Coat a cooling rack with nonstick spray and place on a baking sheet; set aside.
    In a small bowl, combine Parmesan, thyme, oregano, basil, garlic powder, salt and pepper, to taste.
    Place zucchini onto prepared baking sheet. Drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle with Parmesan mixture. Place into oven and bake until tender, about 15 minutes. Then broil for 2-3 minutes, or until the crisp and golden brown.
    Serve immediately, garnished with parsley, if desired.

  • Dessert:  Easy No Bake Lemon Cheesecake
  • Ingredients 

    • 397 grams sweetened condensed milk
    • 300 grams cream cheese
    • 285 ml double cream
    • large lemons
    • 12 digestive biscuits (crushed)
    • 80 grams butter
  • Fresh watermelon slices also.
  • THAT WAS SUPPER!!!!  AND OF COURSE, ESPRESSO