After returning from Sicily, I've had two wonderful weeks of settling in and getting a bit of routine. Loving it. Loving Bari. Loving the simple pleasures of life and wonderful friends. Still can't get over being amazed at all my good fortune... to have gotten to experience so much since March 5th, 2014 is almost more than I can take in. Nice to have this blog (diary) to go back and 'relive' it.
A little of what that routine looks like: Sleep until I awaken naturally (the best part of being retired), arise and make my herbal drinks, etc., Next, I love my morning devotion time. After that, I do my floor exercises, then shower and get ready for the day. Now 1-2 hours of language study... much needed breaks in between :) , especially for espresso! Almost every afternoon, I try to go to the beach for a swim and a bit of sun, however, it has rained a few different days here, so fall is coming and won't get to do this as much as I have been. I have loved the rain and thunder and lightening. Interesting how different the thunder sounds bouncing off all these tall buildings that are so close together and you can hear it rumbling down the narrow streets. Very interesting sound! Wind kicking up the seas makes it harder to swim in.
And if the parking spot isn't big enough, angle parking works... :)
A walk along the sea behind Caputo's home, with Liliana, Marco, Aurora and Roberto after Sunday lunch on the 14th with all the family. His folks, and sister, and so many others.
Cristina is having some issues with her elbow, so has been taking some treatments for it. I went to the doctors office with her one day. Aurora (4) tried to tell me something in Italian. She could see that I was not understanding her, so Cristina, said to Aurora to tell Carmen (said it in English what she should say to me). Aurora spread both her hands in front of her, palms up and said, "she has had enough time... she needs to speak Italian"! Oh my goodness, I love children... how funny is this!!
The children love to have me come over there and I love going and being with them. Another day, Cristina was outside her home speaking in English, and she said both the children came running out saying "Carmen is here, Carmen is here", just because they heard her speak English. They were so disappointed when they found out I wasn't. :( I see them at least twice a week.
Planning a meal... well that was a unique challenge. Spent several days going to the market and reading labels, as well as recipes. Who knew cooking could be so complicated! Conversions, conversions! Grams, ml, liters, celsius. Oh my; but from the happy look on these faces, I think it turned out okay... or maybe it was just the wine talking :) Anyway, I thought it was fantastic, enough that I will share the recipes as per Ms. Gail's request :) They will be posted at the end Gail... enjoy, or should I say. good luck! One thing I've noticed here, are the tomatoes, lemons and olive oil taste soooo much better! And also the fresh mozzarella!
Saturday 20th, AnnaMaria (Teresa's sister) came over and I got my first massage since I've been in Italy. What luxury to have it done in my own home; how very relaxing and the "price was right"!! Something I can afford :)
Sunday 21st, after church went to Teresa's and she made Beef Bolognese sauce over noodles and other yummy things for lunch, then we had our wonderful afternoon sietas before evening bible study. Getting quite use to these siestas, and because everyone does it, it doesn't make me feel old. :)
Monday, did laundry, walked down town a bit. Not much. Then in the late afternoon, met with the landlord to inquire if they would let me put up a shelf... got my answer today 26th.. Yes! Borrowing a drill this afternoon to do just that. Damiano is a wonderful manager for my apartment. He speaks excellent English, so makes communication enjoyable! He said I looked 'relaxed'... nice to hear. I know I sure am enjoying it here and love my little apartment. It is just right! Not too big, but suits my purposes perfectly right now!
It is above these two white chairs that I want to put the shelf.
Added this picture later after I got the shelf up :)
On Wednesday the 24th, Freda, Crengutsa and I were invited to have 1 pm lunch and spend the afternoon with Mafalda until time for evening church. Mafalda is a lovely elderly lady who is always doing all she can for everyone, has all her 'wits' about her and is vibrant and just adorable. Lives in her own very large home and gets around like a much much younger woman.
Now, since I was unable to get a very good physical pictures, I will try to paint a word picture for you... I could hardly believe it and yet it felt and seemed so normal (and of course, it is normal here in Italy!!) I am just loving 'stepping back in time'!! A much simpler lifestyle, in so many ways... Anyway, it tickled my funny bone and still makes me laugh when I think of it...
So picture this: Mafalda is 82 years old and still drives this 2 door car. It comes with 'character and personal touchs', reflecting a well used vehicle (keep in mind, no different than all the other cars here though), just not a comfortable feeling to know how close some of the calls were :)
This is my Sunday church group. Mafalda is in white with hand on g'ma shoulder.
Anyway, Freda, Crengutsa and I rode the bus over to the area where she lives and she insisted on coming to pick us up at the bus stop (otherwise we would have walked... I like walking!!) When we arrived at the bus stop, we saw this tiny 4 foot, 82 year old lady there to pick us in in this two door :). Not only that, because there are so many undesirable types that get off at this particular stop, another lady who had gotten off when we did, asked Mafalda if she could please have a ride too.... Okay, that now makes five of us....
So we all pile in. Freda and I ('fully grown women') and Crengutsa (a bit smaller) all pile in the back seat!!! and then the other Italian lady is in front and Malfalda is driving. Oh My! We looked like pretzels in a tuna can packed in oil (those shocks will never be the same)! This struck me as so funny, I started laughing and trying not too, as I did not want to offend anyone, but how to stop. Dug up my camera from the folds and pits and tried to take some pictures, but as you can see, impossible to 'get back far enough' (understatement!!)
The only room left in the car was above Mafalda's head... she is only 4 foot! What a big heart this small woman has! She wanted to be as helpful as she could, always doing and giving her best. Knowing people like her really humbles me.
Crengutsa waiting to slither out :) Loved it... could hardly believe I was doing this after owning a Lincoln Town Car... one of the biggest land yachts yet, and now this. How do I say Love, Love, Love being here experiencing these things and who I am experiencing them with!
Freda at Mafalda's
Lunch at Mafalda's with her grandson, Stefano. Mafalda is an Awesome cook; everything has such excellent flavor. Stefano is a very nice young man and such a help to Mafalda.
After lunch, we all took our afternoon 'siesta', then around 4pm I got up and walked over to Caputo's to pick up my mail and to get on the internet and take care of some banking business. Just before 6 pm, Malfalda and the girls came over for Bible study. After study, I caught a ride home with Giacinto and Freda & Crengutsa with Giuseppe. All in all, what a lovely day.
And now, it is Friday again already... time seems to go just as fast as it ever did. Two weeks gone already. Two full consecutive weeks in my apartment and I have loved it. What's really nice is how quiet my apartment is!!! I love quietness!! Oh, How I love it! So now, time for more studying....
Ciao!
Recipes: What's cooking
On the table to be eaten with or at any time:
Take fresh chopped garlic and place on a baking dish in the oven and dry toast until golden brown, but do not scorch. Cool, spread out on a flat plate, sprinkle with fresh ground sea salt, then pour fresh olive oil over, just to cover the garlic. Now slice very thin slices of your favorite bread and use these to 'dip' in the garlic/oil, making sure to press down to pick up the garlic pieces.... Yummy! Actually something I learned in the US some years ago.
1st course:
Italian Semolina Dumplings.
DIRECTIONS:
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2nd course:
Mozzarella, Tomato, Basil Salad.
Ingredients
2 large ripe tomatoes, peeled and sliced 1/4-inch thick 8 ounces fresh mozzarella, sliced 1/4-inch thick 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil 8 fresh basil leaves Directions Arrange the tomato and mozzarella slices on a platter or individual salad plates, overlapping the slices and fanning them out like a deck of cards. Sprinkle with the salt and pepper. Drizzle with the oil. Garnish with the basil: Cut it into very thin slices or tear into bits and sprinkle on top or leave the leaves whole and tuck them here and there between the mozzarella and tomato slices. Serve immediately. 3rd Course:Chicken and Pasta in White Wine Garlic Sauce
Directions
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Carmen, Obviously, you are having a fantastic time. I'm so happy for you. I love reading about your adventures. Mary Heston
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing. Joyce Wright
ReplyDeleteAll good! Barbara Fortado
ReplyDeleteYUM!! Judi Lewis Hull
ReplyDeletehaha...can just visualize 5 of you squished into that little tiny car :-)) Noni McNinch
ReplyDeleteYou write so well, I feel as tho I know those folk and love them, too!!! As for retirement, we've found we don't have as much time as we did when we were working!!! (maybe we organized our time better when we were working but I love retirement!!!)
ReplyDeleteAww! That was me, Nita Stutson, Carmen that commented anonymous. I am not very computer literate, sorry.
DeleteSo glad to hear you guys have retired Nita! That means you'll be coming to see me ?? :)
DeleteYour adventure sounds fantastic! I looked at that lemon dessert recipe. Sounds and looks delicious! Not sure how to convert the recipe to what I know. What are digestive biscuits?!! Karolyn Erickson
ReplyDeleteKarolyn, Digestive biscuits are similar to Graham Crackers. I had never heard of them until I came here. I also had to use conversion tables But it turned out to be simpler than I anticipated and was very good! Maybe my tastes have changed since I've gotten here, but the lemons seem to have a much nicer taste here.... not so bitter. Just as lemony, but smoother somehow.
DeleteSimply love your blog Carmen! What awesome experiences. From the people.... to your daily swims in the sea. Love it!! Rhonda Holloway
ReplyDeleteThe apartment looks very nice. We loved the tomatos and mozella cheese although the tomatos looked anemic but tasted very good. :)
ReplyDeleteIt is a very small apartment, but new and very nice... everything works properly!! When I left Washington, I sold a 7500 sq ft home... definitely smaller :) My whole apartment would fit into my kitchen in the other house!! Not about things though... I am absolutely loving the simple lifestyle and all the people and experiences. Do you and Dwain think you will make another trip over here? If so, be sure and look me up!
DeleteOh, dear Carmen.... I'm still chuckling at the "pretzels in sardine can"... oh, the visual it presents... my laptop is even shaking right now ;-) Whew! Love, LOVE, L.O.V.E. your descriptions of what "everyday life" is for you... and so in awe of your wonderful privileges & opportunities. Totally understand how much easier the simple life is than having lots of space and feeling it should be filled up- I lived in a Mother-in-law apt for 2 yrs(just bedroom & bathroom +frig, micro, & coffee pot)... maybe that's why I'm still struggling w/ the decorating of my place. Oh, yes, grazie for the recipes ;-) I'm drooling! By the way, do the dear Friends there read this blog? Maybe that's why you mentioned what I said before, here in the blog? Otherwise, just tell them in person when the time is right that your Family here is thankful for Family there that have reached out & embraced you so wholeheartedly. OK, time for bed. Picking up Dorothy tomorrow as Good's OOT for anniv. celebr. Buona notte, my friend! Gail
ReplyDelete"Yeah! interesting to see D. biscuits in Italian recipe- I've always associated them w/ British cooking/eating. Thinking they're also a bit similar to arrowroot biscuits (cookies)? Do you think a touch of vanilla would soften our "sharp" lemons (for this recipe)?" Gail
ReplyDeleteNot sure Gail? All I can say is try it or maybe use a little less lemon. Have fun and happy eating!! Thanks for your blog post... I will tell them!! Have a wonderful Sunday and so happy to see pic of D & C and congrats to them... if I were there, I'd be joining you all!! Love, C
DeleteYou, too, a wonderful Son-day. Gail
DeleteHello Carmen....enjoying your blog! We are giving you a 'heads-up' that we are hoping to get over there within a couple of years...we are questioning about weather during Oct through Feb for Italy and Greece. We would maybe rent a Vacation to go home for a month & go around touring, hoping with you along, including Greece, having Christine time...(she is my sister, Dixie & Jerry Stitt's niece...you may know that). Anyway, we have Israel & Normandy/Paris planned b4 with others first...must plan even knowing we have no idea how tomorrow may or may not be. We are trying to go to our Bucket list travel while in our prime of health!,,
ReplyDeleteCiao....my uncle, now gone, came from Italy and family are still there...northern area. Susan Thompson
Oh, this is exciting news!! Will be wonderful to have you come and for sure, I will travel with you to Greece or whereever. Loved my time there. Can't really speak about the weather, as this is my first year here, but after winter, I'll let you know how it goes. :)
DeleteHello to you! Enjoy following your post. Virginia Goodlaxson
ReplyDeleteWas just reading an article in news about Murano. Recalling your recent trip there with your guests, thought you might be interested to know the following info for any future trips...
ReplyDelete"Across the lagoon, exhibitions at the recently opened Stanze del Vetro on the island of San Giorgio Maggiore focus exclusively on local glass. The current display features luminous works by Tomaso Buzzi, an architect whose collaborations with Venini in the 1930s simultaneously revived ancient Etruscan motifs and pioneered a way of creating lustrous colored glass that appears dusted with gold. The exhibition (on view through Jan. 11, 2015) is free." Buona Notte, Gail
Here's the link, by the way: http://www.msn.com/en-us/travel/news/murano-italy-still-sparkling-after-700-years/ar-BB9EDYc
ReplyDeleteCiao!
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